Is Love a Weakness or Strength?

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Is Love a Weakness or Strength?

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We fall in love. We burn in the excitement of love. All we want is reaching or better to say gaining possessing the beloved.brIs it the nature of love that we want to possess each other? Does in a romantic relation there is always a person who is possessed and another one which possesses? Like a horny human who would even chew bricks of the wall to satisfy his desire, lovers burn in the fever of their lovely lusts and want nothing but obtaining their beloveds to satisfy their desires. Like greed to possess wealth and property?brWe are trying to show a romantic dream like face of love. Are we idealists, and dont want to see the true nature of love? We adorn bloody muscles, bones and sinews of animals with spice, sauce and vegetables and eat them with joy. Is romantic love also in this way?brFelines signify their territories by their urine. They possess their territories in this way. Do we do the same thing by marrying? Do we marry to obtain our spouse like a stimulated tiger and retain from the reach of another tiger? Mullahs put their wives in a veil to preserve them from probable encroach.brIf the nature of love is not possessing, obtaining and greed, why we cannot love some body and yet let another one love our beloved. If love is an immortal affection, why not to let each other have different beloveds. If we like our beloved then what kind of obsess is that we in need of marrying possess herhim? I want to say that we dont want falling in love for the love itself. Im sorry I see no liking in your love affairs. I can just see stimulated straighten sexual organs.brIn sermon of marriage of Islamists it is stated that the wife is ready to sleep with that man for a certain amount of dowry. This is the nature of marriage. Do we dislike Islam because it is showing the bitter, vile and animal reality of ours? Do we want to hide our crude animal like identity in the silk costume of idealism?brYes, love is an obsessive passion which takes our mind and intellect away, and like any other kind of passion it lays down so fast.brWhat do you think?